Backing up to Thursday, we had new friends, Mic & Laura, over for dinner. We had a great time getting to know them better and enjoyed food and fellowship. They are in our Bible study group.
On Friday, Helen and Cheryl invited us out to dinner at a new restaurant here in Lakeland. Ford's Garage is quite a novelty and the food was delicious!! Cheryl is driving now, and they picked us up! A nice treat for me to not have to drive and a treat for both of us to be invited out to dinner.
Cars hanging from the ceiling with turning tires and
every once in a while, the horn honks.
Notice all the beers on tap behind the bar. Wow!
The sinks in the bathrooms are tires and the faucets are like
gas nozzles. Too cute. Door handles are all gas nozzles, too.
Helen & Cheryl
The burgers are all named for some of Lakeland's notable citizens.
I ordered the burger named for our city manager, Tony DelGado.
I know Tony well and worked with him on our Board at the Museum.
Mac & cheese instead of fries whenever I can!!!
Doesn't that look good? It was yummy!
On Saturday, Joe had an appointment at the local VA Clinic, so we headed over there. It didn't take too long. I amused myself by taking a selfie...
From there, we headed downtown for the annual ART CRAWL in our central Munn Park. Neither one of us is able to walk much. Joe gets out of breath and was going to hang out on one of the park benches while I checked out the artists. We couldn't find a place to park. I was bummed. We drove around a few blocks hoping someone would leave. If we parked 3-4 blocks away in a parking lot, I would have been done before we got to the event. My cortisone shots are still a week away. Bad timing on my part.
The weekly Farmers' Market was also going on. Had to miss that too.
Yesterday, Joe and I hosted a brunch for our immediate neighbors, to celebrate the return of our Canadian neighbors, Jill and Murray. There were eight of us and the food was well received and the company was great. We are so blessed with wonderful neighbors. I didn't get one picture. Can't believe I forgot to take pictures. Our son, Joey, called while we were sitting down to eat and we asked if we could call later. He said of course.
We called him back when everyone left and we got some very sad news. I would like to ask my prayer warrior friends to pray for our family, especially for our son, Joey, and daughter-in-law, Darlene, and her daughter Rita, and also for Darlene's mom, Cecelia. Darlene's son, Steve, committed suicide on Saturday. It is (of course) such a shock. No hint about what he was thinking. Just a total shock. It is so hard to even process right now.
This was the last time we saw Steve, at Joey's retirement party,
back in January. Here he is talking (listening to) with Joe.
I found a few quotes that might be comforting.
Suicide is so hard to understand. Maybe there is to be no understanding.
Life goes on. We all lean on our faith in Jesus Christ to keep us strong.
Thanks for your visit and for your prayers! Peace & hugs. God bless.
















Praying for all your family. Please accept my sincere condolences.
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Terri- I am so very, very sorry about the suicide. I don't think there ever really are any answers. It is just such a sad thing...and mixed in with the sadness is a bit of anger-which makes it even harder. God bless your whole family-especially Darlene as you all deal with this.
ReplyDeleteI am amazed that your VA is open for appts on Saturday. We are a Mon-Fri here with the VA clinic.
Sorry you couldn't find a place to park and had to miss the walk-about. I hope you have a great week. xo Diana
That restaurant looks neat. I love the tire sinks + the food looks yummy.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss.
OMG.. I will definitely keep your son's family in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteOh no! I am so very sorry - you have all my prayers! Such a sad time for your family!
ReplyDeleteOh Terri, how tragic. I will pray for your family. We lost a good friend to suicide several years ago and it is a very hard thing. You always wonder Why? So glad you are surrounded by loving friends there at Mas Verde.
ReplyDeleteSuch heart-wrenching news, Terri. I will be keeping you all in prayer, my friend.
ReplyDeleteI was so sorry to read of the death of your DIL's son, Steve. Suicide is so sad because it not leaves such a great void but also so many unanswered questions. You and Joe must be the most social retired couple I know. What an interesting and fun life you live.
ReplyDeleteOhhhh Terri....I am so sorry...keeping you in prayer.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh Terri - I am so sorry - praying for the family. That's the awful thing about suicide - there's so much unknown & so many left with no answers & broken hearts.
ReplyDeleteI'm so saddened to hear of Steve's untimely passing; what despair! Of course, my prayers go up to all who loved him.
ReplyDeleteMan, I wish I could wiggle my nose and take a bite out of that burger! Ford's Garage sounds like a great little place.
Terri, I am so sorry for your loss and will pray for all of you. Words are hard to come by at a time like this. May the Lord's peace that passes all understanding comfort each of you. I am sad with you.
ReplyDeleteThank you, everyone!
ReplyDeleteprayers.. so sad.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. We never can comprehend what goes on in the hearts and minds of those who take such a final step. May God comfort your family and give strength to those who are deeply grieving and asking "why". Praying for peace in their hearts and the strength they need to keep going. Sending (((hugs))) and prayers to all. On the brighter side, I loved that you are having people in your home for meals, etc., and that you also got to go out to eat at that fun looking place. What a cool atmosphere! Sorry you are not able to get out and walk like you would like to do. Praying you will get relief soon. Sending love to you again. So very sorry.
ReplyDeleteSuicide is so heartbreaking, it has touched my family too. I pray all the people that loved him will heal. I tried to follow your blog and it said "you are not authorized to follow this blog." I never saw that message before, in 11 years of blogging.
ReplyDeleteSorry! I don't know why you got that message. I don't have any security things on my blog.
DeleteThe restaurant looks like so much fun.
ReplyDeleteI'm so, so sorry about this loss. It's so hard to understand. I'll surely be praying for all of you.
Oh dear Terri!!! That is such a tragic loss!! Wish I could wrap my arms around you Joe and Darlene and Joey and her daughter and mom. I am so, so sorry.
ReplyDeleteWow, that restaurant!! Dick would absolutely love it!
Oh Terri, I just read this post about Steve. I am so sorry for everyone affected by this tragedy. It surely makes my concerns shrink to trivialities when I hear of someone's genuine trials and grief. I will pray for the whole family.
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